This page has been created as a handy advice resource, the idea being that additional and up-to-date information will be added as it is brought to my attention.
If you are a man looking for a woman to top you and have been sent this link in response to an email or post, I hope you will be pleased ~
someone cared enough to help you, and yes, you do need it.
For some reason there seems to be confusion about how submissive men should conduct themselves so here are some suggestions from some dominant women;
Bitchy Jones , Dev, Domme-brarian, Ferns, Lilyana, Stabbity, or me.
In case you have a slow connection, difficulty reading English, or a short attention span,
here is the summary;
- Be polite
- Behave like a fully realized human being
- Treat dominant women as fully realized human beings
- Don’t send unsolicited photos of your nether regions
- Have a life, aka. be interesting
Please take this advice.
It is not hard to follow, it will make dominant women much more willing to dialogue with you, and helps to reduce inaccurate and unhelpful stereotypes about submissive men. Be aware though, if you insist on messaging women who aren’t seeking men— we aren’t going to be interested.
Thank you!
July 23rd, 2011 at 3:27 pm
[...] two issues though to be addressed. First, I’m not looking, thanks. Second, damn but a lot of you sub guys really need to read this. 3. Why did you decide to start blogging? I want a place to say what works for me, and discuss [...]
October 16th, 2011 at 1:32 pm
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October 17th, 2011 at 10:59 am
i want to be your slave,submissive forever
October 17th, 2011 at 2:25 pm
Really??
Are you fucking kidding me?!
WHY DOES IT NEVER END?
October 21st, 2011 at 2:32 pm
People surf the Internet when they are bored in their offices, and sometimes they hack out a few words. They lay their egg and leave, not really interested in their offspring. There are all kinds of people out here in cyberspace. That comment above could even be a joke, or a provocation, since it came after you published your “It never ends!” blog.
October 21st, 2011 at 9:26 pm
Thank you for the clarification, Raposo.
I was wondering why you did things like this :p
October 22nd, 2011 at 7:26 am
Haha, yes, we want to avoid boredomme, don’t we
December 25th, 2011 at 9:52 am
Thanks for writing this! Now if only we could get potential subs to read the carefully crafted directions we give them.